Hello Blogger World!
I haven't been on in ages and well I finally got a random spark to start blogging again.
I have more relationship advice - (maybe I should change my blog to being on just relationships because that is what I am good at).
But tonight it is for all you girls out there!
So, I know so many girls that are so shy when it comes to approaching guys. They don't want to be the first one to make a move and neither do you. So, you end up staring at each other from across the room for the entire time and then feel bad that you didn't say anything!
Well girls here is a tip I have gotten from many guys: DON'T BE AFRAID TO MAKE THE FIRST MOVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1 Guys are just as shy as you are, and they don't want to be viewed as creepy - so they sit back to see if you will start anything with them. Not only do they like a girl with confidence, but they also like knowing that you were willing to be able to say hi first. Sometimes that is all it takes is starting a small, simple conversation and WHAM - you start the beginnings of a friendship.
Which moves me onto my next topic. So many girls end up dating their best guy friends and well... let me tell you something...sometimes it isn't a good thing. Now, there are relationships out there that have been extremely strong because they were founded on friendship...however, the point of dating is to get to know someone better. If you already know them like a book - then all there is left is commitment. Now, if your looking for commitment - FULL STEAM AHEAD!!! But, if you are looking just to look - then dating your best friend has a 50/50 shot of being a good or bad thing. Sometimes, it is fine and if something happens - the friendship will stay in tack. However, if something happens, you risk losing a friendship and that is something to consider.
I know personal experience for me: For my boyfriend and I- I made the first move and said hello to him and asked if I could sit next to him. Because I hate sitting in silence and i figured it would be awesome to make a new friend, i started up a friendly conversation. As the year went on we slowly grew into friends and now...we are dating. If i had never talked to him - i may not be where I am today.
So ladies, don't be so old school- guys will eventually fall into line, but show your bright, confident selves off and step out of your comfort zone. Sometimes - you never know what you might be passing up if you don't step out of the box.
